Not every kid/teenager is a smartphone addict. Social media is important and not bad per se. But not every social media app is the right thing for your kids. Some apps are even illegal, nevertheless many use them.
We offer with UDN (=UnderstandingDigitalNatives.com) a new forum for you to be able to talk to other parents and learn from their experience.
Smartphones, social media etc., all this is very important for your kids and you need to understand what is going on here and what is good and what is bad for your family.